Our children died. We are still here. That is resilience. It's not recognized 24/7, but it is there under layers of tears, sorrows, loneliness, anger, denial, doubt, guilt and depression. If we get out of bed, take a shower, make a meal, make a call, exercise, meditate, go to work, do an activity with our living children, that is resilience.
All of the above shows we have not given up. There is a little spark in us that remains, but we may not acknowledge it. Nevertheless, it is there. We can move forward. With each small thing we manage to do, the flame lights bigger and brighter. We could see ourselves with a small lit candle inside us. Let the small light shine and guide us. Encourage us. Nurture us. It is a sign of life within us. Life allowed by our resilience.
As much as our brains may tell us, "Give up," there remains in us the light of resilience. Chase it. Keep it. Don't give in to giving up. We can navigate this toughest of journeys---grief for the loss of our children. Trust in resilience.
Psalm 46: 1 "God is our shelter and strength, always ready to help us in times of trouble. 2 So we will not be afraid, even if the earth is shaken and mountains fall into the ocean depths; 3 Even if the seas roar and rage, and the hills are shaken by the violence."
Love, peace and strength to you all, Rosemarie
P.S. Thank you to my new readers from all over the world. I appreciate your interest and support. I hope and pray my blog has helped you in the losses of your children.
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