Tuesday, January 7, 2025

THE TERROR OF TERRORISM

As the bible says, "We know not the day nor the hour..."  I feel that way about brutal acts of terrorism. Where are we and our children safe? Certainly not at outdoor events in large cities. Unfortunately, there are fourteen sets of parents who can attest to that. And a set of sixteen more parents and families who wait bedside as their children receive moderate to intensive care. Outcomes tragically uncertain.

Why is there so much hatred and fanaticism in the world? Why is it so easy to make bombs and IED's in order to cost the maximum number lives and maim so many others? Why are illegal weapons and illegal drugs so readily available? Terror attacks are hardly the way to convert people to an ideology. Terrorism creates more hatred, not conversions. Do terrorists really believe they can convert the masses to their ideology and kill all those who refuse to convert to their radicalism? And thus rule the world. 

This is very disturbed thinking for a group, who now due to poor political decisions, has the ability to make nuclear weapons and billions of dollars to get whatever weaponry they desire. I hope and pray we will see some turn around in these capabilities with a new United States administration in 2025. I pray for change and safety for all our children and us as parents.

I also hope we will see significant changes in the ability to have long term care for the truly chronically and dangerously mentally ill. Instead of continued inpatient care, many of the mentally ill live on the streets where the public is subject to their dangerous delusions and hallucinations. Go to any news site and read the horror stories of innocent victims falling prey to a dangerously mentally ill person's violence. This problem needs drastic and immediate solutions.

Finally, the gangs of teens who get illegal weapons and shoot up entire neighborhoods in pursuit of some rival teen. Again innocent victims fall prey to this gunfire. People are afraid to leave their homes. The only solution I see here is no bail and stiffer penalties for crimes committed with an illegal weapon or a weapon used illegally. Our streets and our schools need to be safe from those whose lack of values pose a danger to all of us.

Behind all these examples are mostly young people who have lost their lives through no fault of their own. And behind all those who have succumbed to violence are parents, siblings and families who hope for justice for their child and loved one. But, no amount of punishment or money can ever bring back a deceased child.

Prevention is the only solution. We need federal law enforcement to devote much more effort and resources to the true terrorists of this world. We need an overhaul of our mental health care and facilities to provide inpatient long term care. We need to support law enforcement in its efforts to stem the tide of violence. We need effective district attorneys and judges who will impose bail and stiff sentences to make crime not worth the effort. Now, there are simply no deterrents. We need an effective closed borders that do not invite dangerous criminals and drugs into our country to cause more heartbreak.

The dangerously mentally ill, drug dealers, gangs of teens and dangerous illegal immigrants have become US domestic terrorists. They hold the law abiding business owners and everyday citizens hostage to their crimes and evil. The world seems upside down and inside out because of progressive "soft on crime" policies. And terrorists are successful because federal authorities have taken their eyes off the ball from real individuals who are actual threats.

I mourn because behind every statistic of a victim of violence are parents, families and friends who no longer have a child and loved one. Things need to change. Citizens have a right to feel safe going about their daily business and seeking education and entertainment. Enough of official incompetence and corruption. Hiring, promotions and added official responsibilities need to be merit based. No more lies, evasions and cover-ups in the greatest nation in the world. Politicians need to be held accountable for solutions to the problems we face.

I look forward to competence, change  and lives saved in 2025. Peace and blessings to all in the New Year.

"I have confidence in your strength; you are my refuge, O God."  Psalm 57: 3

Love, Rosemarie

Sunday, January 5, 2025

May Your Laughter Live: VIOLENCE UNCHECKED

May Your Laughter Live: VIOLENCE UNCHECKED: In a season supposing to bring "peace on earth and good will to men" recent violent events depict anything but. A man sets fire to...

VIOLENCE UNCHECKED

In a season supposing to bring "peace on earth and good will to men" recent violent events depict anything but. A man sets fire to a woman on a subway car in a major city. An ideologic fanatic mows down New Years Eve revelers with a truck in a major city. A military vet, with unmet severe mental health issues, blows up himself and his truck  in front of a famous hotel in a city known for entertainment around the world. Hostages are still being held, under terrible conditions, in a war in the Middle East.

What is happening? First of all political incompetence and political corruption played a role in the loss of life in all these events.  The more things change, the more they stay the same. But all the deaths associated with these global events involve some parents' son or daughter.

So as we visit the Christ child in the manger, light the Menorah candles or cite the principles of Kwanza, let us not forget the pain of other parents as we recall our own losses. We all have our own anger and losses and, sadly, more parents are joining our ranks. 

There is no doubt that evil walks among us. Some of us have experienced it first hand. In my humble opinion, the only way to combat evil is prayer and good works. I know many of us are angry at God for the circumstances surrounding the deaths of our children. But this same God still loves us and we need Him to navigate and to survive our grief journeys. The alternative to asking for God's help is to remain embittered and angry. The choice is ours--to survive or just exist. 

My prayers and sincere condolences to any parent who has recently lost a child in what is supposed to be a season of joy, happiness and renewal, not burying your child. You can and will get through this heavy dark cloud of grief hanging over you. Your life will never be the same, but you can have a life of productivity instead of paralysis. 

Find a way to honor your child's life instead of a memorial at their place of death. Do not isolate. See small groups of trusted family and friends. And pray, pray, pray. Tell God how you are feeling. How you feel hopeless. Even how angry you are at Him. Cry. Punch pillows. Write a daily journal. Write a letter to your child and bury it at his or her gravesite. You can and will come out the other side of this blow. Do not give up. Get counseling. Take prescribed medication for anxiety or depression in the short term. There is hope. Do not give up.

Wishing you all hope, strength and peace in the coming days. Love, Rosemarie

If anyone is feeling hopeless and suicidal, call 911 or 988 in the US or got to your nearest hospital emergency room. There is no shame in asking for help in times of severe loss.

"Leave your troubles with the Lord, and He will defend you." Psalm 55: 22